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Slow Down! Step-by-Step Drawing for Impulsive Kids

Impulsive kids rush through drawings. Step-by-step drawing gives them a built-in pause button. Tips for helping kids slow down and finish.

By Kevin Coulston, author and illustrator of 88 children’s art books · · 2 min read

Step-by-step drawing helps impulsive kids slow down because it builds in natural pauses: finish this step, look, then do the next one. Short lessons with cute, simple subjects give them a satisfying result without a long wait.

Impulsive kids want to get to the end fast. They scribble, skip steps and move on. Step-by-step drawing gently teaches them that slowing down leads to better results.

The built-in pause

Each step in a step-by-step lesson is a mini-goal. Kids finish it, look at the next step, then continue. That rhythm of do, pause, look is exactly what impulsive kids need to practise.

Short and sweet

Long lessons test patience too much. How to Draw: Baby Robots has cute, simple robots that come together in six steps. Short enough to finish, structured enough to slow down.

Tips to slow down

  • Point first. Point to the new part before drawing it.
  • Say it. "Now I draw the antenna."
  • Check it. Compare with the book after each step.
  • Count steps. "Step 3 of 6."
  • Celebrate finishing all steps.

Do not nag

Constant "slow down!" reminders backfire. Instead, praise slowing down when it happens: "You took your time on that step and it looks great."

Impulsivity and ADHD

Impulsivity is common in young children and sometimes connected to ADHD. See drawing for kids with ADHD.

Questions parents ask

How can I help my impulsive child slow down?

Use activities with built-in pauses, like step-by-step drawing, and praise slowing down when it happens.

Why does my child rush through drawings?

Many young children are eager to finish. Impulse control develops with age and practice.

Is step-by-step drawing good for impulsive kids?

Yes. Each step acts as a natural pause, which helps children practise slowing down.

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