Keeping Tweens Drawing Through Ages 9 to 12
Tweens often stop drawing. Keep 9- to 12-year-olds drawing with challenging projects, cool subjects, grid drawing and creative independence.
Many kids stop drawing between 9 and 12 because they become self-critical or find it "babyish." Keep tweens drawing with challenging projects, cool subjects, detailed grid drawings, comics and plenty of independence to explore their own style.
The tween years are when many kids decide whether they are "artists." Supporting them now can keep a lifelong hobby alive.
Why tweens quit
- Self-criticism
- Comparing with others
- Feeling drawing is childish
- Busy schedules
- Screens
What keeps them going
- Challenge. Detailed, impressive projects.
- Cool subjects. Sci-fi, fantasy, comics.
- Independence. Their own sketchbook, their own style.
- Social connection. Friends who draw.
Detailed grid challenges
Draw by Grid: Alien Cyborgs is a detailed grid challenge made for 9 to 12 year olds. It feels grown-up, produces impressive results and gives tweens something to be proud of.
Project ideas
- Comic series
- Character design
- World-building
- Fan art of favorite shows
- Sketchbook challenges
Respect their space
Tweens may not want to share every drawing. Respect privacy in their sketchbooks.
For the next stage, see why teens quit drawing.
Questions parents ask
Why do tweens stop drawing?
Self-criticism, comparison, feeling it is childish and busy schedules are common reasons.
How can I keep my tween interested in drawing?
Offer challenging projects, cool subjects, independence and social connections with other kids who draw.
What drawing books are good for tweens?
Detailed grid drawing books and sci-fi or fantasy subjects that feel grown-up.
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