A Drawing Playdate: The Easiest Activity to Host
Hosting a playdate? A drawing playdate is easy, calm and fun for kids who don't know each other well. Here's a simple plan with games and a take-home.
A drawing playdate is one of the easiest playdates to host. Set out supplies, start with a step-by-step lesson both kids can do, add a drawing game, and send each child home with their art. It works especially well for kids who do not know each other well yet.
Playdates can be unpredictable. Some kids need structure to get started, especially shy ones or new friends. Drawing gives the playdate a gentle shape.
Setup
- A clear table with two places
- A supply box for each child
- A drawing book with simple lessons
- Snacks nearby
A simple plan
1. Snack and settle (10 minutes).
2. Draw together (15 minutes). A step-by-step lesson both kids can follow.
3. Drawing game (15 minutes). Something collaborative.
4. Free play. Kids often move on to other games naturally.
5. Take-home. Each child takes their drawings.
Easy, cheerful lessons
Pick something almost every child likes. How to Draw: Cute Cartoon Animals is full of round, friendly animals that look great even when lines wobble, so both kids feel successful, whatever their skill level.
Playdate drawing games
- Draw each other as animals.
- Monster swap. Each draws half a monster.
- Drawing guess. One draws, the other guesses.
- Design a pet. Both invent a pet and introduce it.
Tips
- Avoid competition; focus on fun.
- Let kids take breaks to play other things.
- Praise both kids equally.
For a bigger group, see a drawing birthday party.
Questions parents ask
What is a good playdate activity for kids who just met?
Drawing together is calm and structured, which helps new friends warm up. Start with a simple lesson and a drawing game.
How long should a drawing playdate be?
About 1.5 to 2 hours is plenty, with drawing for 30 to 45 minutes and free play the rest of the time.
What supplies do I need for a drawing playdate?
Paper, pencils, crayons or markers, a drawing book and a separate supply box for each child.
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